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|Your NEW New Year's Resolution|
Now that we're a month in, how is it going with your New Year's resolution? Have you fallen off track yet, or are you following through? Is it, by chance, the same resolution you made last year? Or have you become cynical and scrapped making them, not believing you’ll achieve your goal?
Each year, countless people start the year eagerly wanting to redefine various aspects of their lives by means of “New Year’s Resolutions”. Something about the change in the calendar year encourages us to put the previous year behind us and look instead to what’s ahead. With renewed hope, energy and spirit, we set goals we wish to accomplish. However, studies find that less than a fourth of people actually keep their New Year’s commitments.
What makes achieving personal goals so difficult? One common pitfall is taking off blindly towards a goal without a map. We start out earnestly at Point A, but have no game plan to help us reach Point B. We quickly find ourselves wandering aimlessly, knowing where we want to be but unsure how to get there. When this happens, it’s easy to abandon our plans and lapse back into our previous apathetic ways.
Lack of accountability is another culprit. January issues of magazines are full of articles advising New Year’s Resolutioners to create their own systems of accountability to reach their goals – because that works for many people. We will make it to the gym if our friend is waiting for us there. We will forego the piece of cake if we know the scales at the weight loss center await us. Life creates mountains of excuses we can use if we don’t have to face someone with our missteps.
How can we learn to keep personal aspirations alive, being accountable to ourselves? How can we set a goal and not lose focus, even if there would be no consequence for abandoning the goal? How can we commit to developing our interests and talents?
Let this year’s resolution be the last one you make. To do this, you’ll need to make one New Year’s resolution. Go ahead, make it right now. Here’s where the money is:
Commit to continually better yourself. Move towards your goals a step at a time. Celebrate the small successes. Make progress a way of life!
Adopt this approach and in no time, rather than being overwhelmed and feeling defeated by goals not met, you’ll be able to face your aspirations with guts and cross the finish line with glory!
How can you do this?
You can adapt this method to nearly any type of goal. For instance, it’s the method I use to develop my business. I draw up a yearly list of goals, then create a marketing plan with my business consultant. Together, we break that down into mini-goals. We put dates to the mini-goals and draw up my projected business calendar. I refer to this constantly so I know if I’m on track or if I need to move or adjust a business goal.
Make 2013 the year you commit to continually working towards a better you, one step at a time. Put this endeavor into practice, then next year when New Year’s rolls around, you won’t have a list of things you want to change about yourself, you’ll already be working towards and achieving those goals!